Are you truly satisfied with your sex life?
BE HONEST.
Your pleasure awaits.
Will you say yes?
Do you ever feel a pang of guilt for not wanting sex like before? Has keeping desire alive become harder than you expected after major life changes? Or maybe you're struggling to talk about libido and intimacy without putting your partner on the spot?
Allow yourself to meet an intimacy guide who helps you and your partner connect on a deeper level, understand each other’s needs, and reignite passion, including with yourself. This journey isn’t just for those facing challenges. It’s also for anyone looking to deepen self-awareness, strengthen a healthy relationship, and cultivate even more connection with their partner.
Step into a safe space where you can unlock true desires, heighten pleasure, and transform intimacy into something as thrilling as it is genuine. This is how you embrace a path to a more joyful, connected life together.
Invite more passion into your life and rediscover pleasure
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INSIGHT
3 INDIVIDUAL SESSIONS
45-minute meeting at Mälarhöjdens Lusthus or Zoom
Discover and explore your sexual history and current desires, understand your drivers – dive into your motivations and unlock a new perspective on pleasure and intimacy.
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SYNCHRONY
2 INDIVIDUAL + 2 SESSIONS with PARTNERS
45-minute meetings at Mälarhöjdens Lusthus or Zoom
Deepen your understanding of each other's sexual needs. Align desires, grow together, and sync your passions to strengthen your bond, boost confidence, and bring more joy into your relationship.
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Insight TEENS
4 SESSIONS (1st with a parent, optional)
45-minute meeting at Mälarhöjdens Lusthus or Zoom
For adolescents and young adults navigating intimacy, relationships, and self-discovery.
Growing up comes with questions—about the body, emotions, dating, and intimacy. Sometimes, it’s hard to find a space where you can talk openly, without judgment or pressure. INSIGHT TEENS is a safe and confidential space where you (or your teen) can explore these topics with guidance, clarity, and curiosity.
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Insight PARENTS
3 SESSIONS
45-minute meeting at Mälarhöjdens Lusthus or Zoom
For parents who want to navigate conversations about intimacy, relationships, and sexuality with confidence.
Parenting comes with endless questions—and when it comes to talking about sex, dating, and emotions, many feel unsure where to begin. Maybe you want to be open and supportive but don’t know how to bring up the right topics at the right time.
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Insight SPECTRUM
3 SESSIONS (with parents, optional)
45-minute meeting at Mälarhöjdens Lusthus or Zoom
For neurodivergent teens, young adults, and their parents
Every brain experiences intimacy, emotions, and relationships differently. Whether you or your child are autistic, ADHD, or have sensory differences, navigating dating, sexuality, and self-image comes with unique challenges—but also unique possibilities.
What you’ll gain
personal action plan
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mapping of challenges
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intimacy assignments
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clarity on key interests
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communication tips
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reading recommendations
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check-ins via SMS or WhatsApp
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personal action plan ♡ mapping of challenges ♡ intimacy assignments ♡ clarity on key interests ♡ communication tips ♡ reading recommendations ♡ check-ins via SMS or WhatsApp ♡
Your investment
3.900 kr
INSIGHT SESSIONS
When was the last time you explored your own pleasure?
You can be honest, with me and with yourself. You’re about to enter a safe space, where every part of you is welcomed: your desires, your curiosity, and even the parts you've yet to discover. Investing in this journey is a commitment to rediscovering yourself, bringing more passion and joy into every aspect of your life.
3.900 kr
I INSIGHT TEENS
What if you had a space where no question felt too awkward?
Growing up comes with a thousand questions—about your body, feelings, and the way you connect with others. Sometimes, these topics feel confusing, overwhelming, or simply unspoken. But here, every part of you is welcome: your curiosity, your doubts, and even the things you’re not sure how to put into words yet.
3.900 kr
I INSIGHT SPECTRUM
What if intimacy felt right for you— explored in your own way, on your own terms?
For neurodivergent minds, intimacy can be both fascinating and overwhelming. Social norms might feel confusing. Sensory experiences can range from deeply pleasurable to overstimulating. Relationships might be full of unspoken expectations that don’t always make sense.
6.000 kr
SYNCHRONY SESSIONS
Has desire become a dance that’s out of step?
It’s time to be honest, especially in bed. In this safe space, you’ll find the tools to realign, nurture intimacy, and reignite the spark that brought you together. Don’t let the magic of your early days fade into memories, bring it back to life. This journey isn’t just about resolving issues; it’s about rediscovering the joy of being in a relationship.
3.900 kr
I INSIGHT PARENTS
What if talking about intimacy with your child didn’t feel so complicated?
Maybe you grew up in a home where sex wasn’t discussed, or maybe you’re trying to offer your child something different—more openness, more understanding. But where do you start? What’s too much, or too little? You’ll leave feeling more secure, better equipped, and ready to guide the young people in your life in a way that strengthens trust, not distance.
Lusthuset
house of desire
Lusthuset is a space where people are invited to bring their stories and uncover their deepest desires. More than just a physical space, it’s a cozy retreat devoted to open dialogue, self-discovery, and where my intimacy guide sessions come to life. Though it began as a small garden house in Stockholm, its spirit crosses borders. No matter where we are, Lusthuset remains a sanctuary of trust and discovery.
“I have memories of my grandmothers welcoming people into their homes for spiritual work. Of my mother, who gave private lessons to the neighborhood children. I remember the lemon pies made by Mrs. Lurdes, carefully lowered from the apartment window by a little rope, in buildings with no elevators. Inspired by these past experiences, I’m moved by the same homely impulse: to open an intimate little space here in the garden where I can welcome people. The idea of blending public and private in a country like Sweden, where culture tends to separate these spaces, felt like a way to bring a piece of Brazil into my life here.”
Book an appointment with me for expert guidance on deepening intimate connections
I understand that investing in yourself is a big step, and I want to make this journey as accessible as possible. If you’re unable to find a suitable time on my calendar, feel free to reach out. I often have a bit of flexibility and may be able to accommodate you sooner. I’ll do my best to find a time that works so we can begin this important work together.
And if finances are a concern, let’s talk. I offer flexible, sliding scale rates tailored to individual situations, because I believe everyone deserves the chance to deepen their self-discovery and connection.
Connect with me here:
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ilana.elea@poetryvillage.org